Toy soldiers for a 3 year old

Yesterday when I picked up my kids from pre-school my son (who is three years old) was really excited to show me the surprise gift he had won during the pre-school Halloween party game of musical bumps. I was thrilled for him until he rushed to his drawer to show me the prize of…. a bag of 100+ toy soldiers.

Call me a middle-class softie but I’m quite keen for my little ones to be blissfully ignorant about what guns,soldiers and wars are until they have the capacity to understand. Given that their favourite story tape in the car is still the Teletubbies I am doubtful that they have reached this level of maturity just yet.

I’m really surprised that an educational establishment felt it appropriate to give such a toy to such a young child and I now feel in a slight predicament as to whether I should mention anything to the pre-school carers (who are all absolutely lovely).

As we walked out of nusery with me exclaiming ‘How wonderful that you won a prize!’ to my thrilled child I thought to myself ‘I’m probably just being oversensitive and besides they’ll never know what toy soldiers represent at this age’. As soon as we got home the two kids opened the packet and only moments later I watched them play with two soldiers each simulating stabbing one another with their guns shouting ‘I KILL YOU! I KILL YOU! I KILL YOoooooU!’.

Hmmmmm. Nil points awarded to the ‘Send your kids to school’side.

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Family food

I’m putting this list together as a reference tool as I often forget the things we like to cook and eat as a family. The girls in this house will eat anything put in front of them but the Beale boys are a little more discerning…

We are quite new to menu planning and the necessity to put three or four meals on the table each day as before the move from London we were both working fulltime,kids were in day nursery 8am-6pm and we usually ate some sort of convenience food,a take away or out at a restaurant. Now we eat homecooked food each day.

At some point I’ll type the recipes that we use out.

* A light and easy Mexican meal:

  • Large piece of steak cut into strips and marinated for a couple of hours in the fridge in natural yoghurt,lime juice (from a bottle hanging around in the fridge),Encona hot chilli sauce
  • Boiled rice
  • Tortilla wraps
  • Chunky salad of orange pepper,cucumber,spinach leaves,ripe avocado
  • Natural greek style yoghurt
  • Salsa made from:
    • Tomatoes
    • Onions or Spring onions
    • Balasamic vinegar chilli sauce
    • Corriander (we should have this had but Upton shops don’t stock it so we are waiting to grow our own plants)

* Pork and Cider Casserole

  • Brown a good portion of diced pork with a tiny bit of oil,add 2 thinly sliced onions &1/2 bunch of celery (including the celery leaves),3 chunky carrots and parsnips to sweat,pour over cider until it is all covered,bring to the boil and stick in the oven for an hour and a quarter.
  • Serve with rice or jacket potatoes (rice is good as its quick and you can cook enough for everyone’s lunchboxes the next day)

Ham &Butter Beans (a Nigel Slater recipe)

500g dried butter beans
a little olive oil
thyme
a piece of boiling bacon –about 1.2kg
2 onions
4 cloves garlic
2 carrots
800g tinned tomatoes
smoked paprika
chorizo sausage boiling sausage

  • Soak the beans for at least 8 hours in deep,cold water. Drain then boil them in unsalted water for about an hour,til they start to show signs of tenderness. Turn off the heat. Set the over at 180 deg C/Gas 4.
  • Warm a couple of tablespoons of olive oil with one or two sprigs of thyme in a deep casserole. Cut the fat from the bacon in one thick piece and let the fat colour briefly on both sides in the oil. This lends a little of the pork flovour to the oil. A sit cooks,peel the onions and chop them roughly. Lift out the piece of fat and set it aside.
  • Soften the onions in the flavoured oil,letting them colour lightly you go,peel the garlic cloves and add them whole to the pot. Scrub and roughly chop the carrots. Stir them through the onions and garlic,then tuck in a good three or four springs of thyme.
  • Add the drained beans but keep the cooking liquid,the chopped tomatoes and gently mix them with the onions.
  • Season with black pepper and a teaspoon of smoked paprika then tuck in the chorizo sausages and the piece of fat to enrich the sauce.
  • Lower the bacon piece on top,pushing it down into the sauce as best you can. Pour in enough of the bean cooking liquid to cover the meat.
  • Bring to the boil,cover and bake for about an hour and a half,till it is all meltingly tender.

Tuna and brown rice salad

Brown basmati rice
Small tin tuna in oil (works much better than the brine option for some reason)
1/2 tin of sweetcorn
Red,yellow,orange or green pepper
Celery
Spring onion
Carrot

Boil rice until cooked,drain and rinse under cold tap. Mix in tuna,sweetcorn,finely chopped salad veg altogether,season with black pepper. A very tasty,satisfying packed/picnic lunch alternative to sandwiches
* Roast lamb,chicken or pork dinner

* Meatloaf,mash,broccoli/cauliflower cheese and peas (any left over mash,caul cheese and peas can be made into cauli-cheese burgers when mixed together and coated in breadcrumbs)

* Home made pizza using the breadmachine for the dough

* Poached chicken and vegetables

* Lamb stew/Lancashire hotpot

* Veggie sausages in a roll with fried onions

* Noodles with clear chicken broth and thinly sliced veggies (pepper,chilli,onion,mushroom,brocolli)

* Chops (lamb or pork) with mash and seasonal vegetables

* Falafels in wholemeal pitta with natural yoghurt

* Baked potatoes with houmous;cheese and homemade coleslaw,cheese and baked beans

* Risotto

* Omlette with ham,onion,tomatoes,mushrooms and cheese

* Chilli con carne

* Tomato,bacon and cheese pasta

* Tortillas with cheese,pepper,onion etc inside heated on a frying pan

* Spinach and ricotta canneloni

* Macaroni cheese with tuna and sweetcorn;or smokey bacon/ham and mushroom

* French toast (a.k.a. eggy bread)

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Where to keep the bin liners

Another post which starts with the disclaimer ‘Sorry to everyone who was shown this trick when they were mini and therefore thinks this as being another piece of obvious knowledge’…

But to all the people out there who,like me,weren’t born knowing that the best place to keep the role of bin bags is in the bin itself enjoy revolutionising your least favourite household chore with this lovely tip.

If you keep the role of liners under the liner which you fill up and then remove you will not only save yourself the minor irritation of having to stroll elsewhere to get the replacement (or relying on someone else doing so and them then forgettng to replace the bin bag so you then chuck a whole uneaten dinner into an unbaggged bin) BUT you also get loads of warning as to when the roll is going to run out and need replacing.

Bin bag bonus.

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Frugal sticker charts for encouraging good behaviour

Both my kids have successfully beaten two irritating habits this month with the aid of sticker charts fashioned from games published in two of the comics they have been given.

My daughter was coming into my bed each night at least once usually twice. I was having to wake up to escort/carry her back to her own room during the small hours which was turning me into a sleep deprived wreck.

My son was wetting the bed each night and I was finding it more and more difficult to wash &dry his bedding (usually including his duvet as he sleeps on top of it) as the days got cooler and damper.

I found these ‘board games’in the comics and took them out and stuck them to the wall at their height with blu tack. I announced that each night they didn’t do the irritating thing they would get a sticker and on the days when they got a sticker on a coloured square (located frequently alopng the game but not too frequently). They would get a special treat.

The special treats are my choice and have varied from making cakes with me in the kitchen while the other child does something else,a visit to a fun place (when they both happen to get coloured squares on the same morning),a 10p toy from a charity shop basket of toys,watching a video of their choice after their bathtime (bathtime got moved very early). I also have a handy bag of fairly cheap toys given to me by my mother-in-law which I kept in our wardrobe the kids sometimes get to choose a toy from the ‘Nanny Lyn Bag’. I might put a replacement bag together with any excess toys the kids are given for their brithday or Christmas.
Things I have learnt:

- Always put the sticker on first thing in the morning rather than ‘Oooh you’ll be getting a sticker when I can be bothered to get the stickers’as invariably everyone forgets and then you have to give two the next day or one because they’ve since remembered but have wet the bed / woken you up in the meantime.

- Decide what the special treat is there and then so you aren’t coerced into issuing more than one because they use the ‘Nooo that wasn’t my special treat,my special treat is going to be a new comic’

- Lots of talking about how brilliant it is that they have managed to do 3 days (in total) of not doing the thing which made you implement the sticker chart and how many days they will have managed when they eventually get to the end.

- Make a big song and dance about how brilliant it is that they haven’t done the thing again,phone up Nanna/Daddy/Uncle Dan to tell them too and give them a big kiss and let them know how proud it makes you.

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Should I make my own Christmas cake?

Two of my already domesticated girlfriends asked me this weekend whether I had made my Christmas cake yet.

There is a great recipe in my cooking file ripped from last years Good Housekeeping entitled ‘The Easiest Christmas Cake Ever’. I made it last November and it tasted great but scanning over the list of ingredients (including crystalised ginger,angostura bitters,dried figs &prunes,brandy etc) I’m realising that the decision to make another one this year will involve a lot of shopping (as well as a lot of chopping).

The recipe says that the total cost is about £7.50 which I’m sure is good value but I’m not sure it ever gets eaten.
In a bid to simplify things at a time when both of us are feeling the pressure I’m making the reluctant decision to not make a Christmas cake this year and will see whether anyone actually misses it.

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How to make playdough (easy no-cook recipe)

Our kids play with their playdough almost every day making little pretend dinners,worm families or faces on the table. They have a tub full of playdough tools which their 93 year old great grandmother bought for them.

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1 Minute Playdough recipe:

Your will need:

  • 1/2 cup of salt
  • 1 cup of flour
  • 1 tablespoon of cream of tartar (Cream of Tartar is a natural powdered raising agent for use in scones,drop scones,soda bread and a wide range of other recipes)
  • 1 tablespoon of oil
  • I cup of boiling water (from the kettle) mixed with
    some food colouring (OR a the contents of three blackcurrant dazzler fruit tea bags for lovely fruity rich purple)

What to do:

Put all the dry ingredients in a bowl and then mix vigourously with the hot water.

Makes wonderful playdough which lasts for ages in little plastic sandwich bags.

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Family menu planning inspiration from old magazines

Contrary to my expectations I find it really tedious having to plan the family’s meals for the coming weeks. My repetoire of dishes we all like eating seems really small (husband and son not keen on vegetables,I can’t eat much wheat without being in agony afterwards,son doesn’t like anything with a ‘bitty’texture,husband doesn’t like fish…).

We’ve got quite a few decent recipe books (Delia,Nigel Slater,Jamie Oliver and the like) but for some reason I find that the meals in there are not very inspiring –either they require far too many special ingredients (Jamie Oliver) or they are all too heavy (Nigel Slater) or more usually I just can’t be bothered to leaf through each tome to find 14 days worth of lunch/dinner possibiliities.

My solution? Ages ago I started a cutting file of magazine articles I liked. I was a real magazine addict but couldn’t store them all so started collecting any recipe which looked nice/easy and we’d all like to try (usually from Good Housekeeping or Country Living). I’d forgotten about this treasure trove until I recently unpacked the last box after our move in July. Had a flick through and suddenly had loads of tasty but EASY things to cook. Yay.

Tonight we are having lamb koftas which is simply minced lamb mixed with cumin,onion and fresh corriander,the other night we had falafels (very similar to lamb koftas only made with chick peas!),before that we had veg,coconut and lentil  curry,coming up soon we have a beef pie,salmon macaroni cheese,home made baked beans,poached chicken and so on.

The trick to taking magazine cuttings is to have a sharp knife/pair of scissors to hand where you usually read the mags (the bathroom in my case while bathing the children),an empty  box file to sling them in and then a lever arch file with loads of empty ‘pockets’to actually file the articles every so often into their respective categories (in my case,gardening,cookery,things to do with kids and other misc.).

I’m really pleased I remembered my old files and had a flick through them as has brought joy to my kitchen but also as have just emailed the local Freecycle group to come and take a large box of Good Housekeepings off my hands. Will have to quickly go through and rip out anything of interest before they go to a new home.

Right better get squelching the minced lamb with the chopped onion and shaping them into long patties….

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Toy library joy

The other day we chanced upon a toy library when we had to go and pick up some business cards for my husband. It was tucked away on a little tiny business park but had bright coloured signage.

Today we went with proof of address back to join Borrowers Toy Library and all three of us were so impressed with the place and their system.

Family membership is £25 per year or £14 for 6 months membership. Once you are a member the family can borrow up to four toys from their massive selection for a fortnight.

The great thing is that they have a huge selection of outdoor toys the kinds that would very quickly clutter up a back garden if you bought any of them but with this scheme we can borrow large toys,enjoy them for a fortnight (or renew for a further 2 weeks) and then take them back. They have trampolines,climbing frmaes,mini diggers,go-carts,see-saws and so on.

Today we borrowed a lovely wooden fruit market complete with mini crates of minature wooden fruits and vegetables (I’ve seen something similar in wooden toy catalogues for sale and am aware that they cost a small fortune),a Winnie the POoh video,a wonderful wizard gown and hat for dressing up &Halloween parties,and an incredibly loud irritating keyboard with loads of buttons and pre-programmed rhythms &tunes.

They have every kind of toy imaginable organised into categories so the children can browse the musical instruments section,the ‘home and living’section,games &puzzles,story tapes,cd-roms to use on the computer,baby and toddler toys etc.

They have a big notice up advertising the fact that they are able to loan single,double and triple buggies,high-chairs,baby bouncers,stair gates and so on.

Next to the til they have a lovely selection of arts and crafts materials to buy at very cheap prices (eg. £1.20 for a 10 x pack of 2007 blank calendars for the children to decorate,tissue paper,pva glue,paints,coloured card and so on).

I’m not sure if this kind of scheme is available elsewhere but would encourage families of young children to investigate as they are a brilliant way of keeping kids entertained with little expenditure and doesn’t add to the huge piles of plastic clobber kids these days seem to accumulate so quickly.

NB:On the back of the leaflet I picked up from the toy library it says to contact the UK Children’s Information Service (www.earlyyearsandchildcare.org.uk) to find out where your local one is located.

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60,441,457 million less pieces of rubbish each day

On our way to pick up some Freecycled jam jars today the kids and I happened across a beautiful playground today with great wooden structures,fresh bark chippings to fall onto and a great view of the nearby hills. It was a nice tidy clean playground so when a crisp packet blew towards me without thinking I just picked it up and popped it in the bin as I went past.

When we lived in London I was used to picking up the litter from the pavement outside our house.

If everyone in the UK picked up just one piece of rubbish from the streets/land each day we’d have a much tidier country with minimal effort.

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Cheating with the breadmaker

A simple swap to make life easy when bunging the ingredients in the breadmaker last thing at night especially when doing it after a nice bath and in fresh clean pyjamas when the last thing you want to do is get sticky ingredients all over you…

Although the recipe calls for tablespoonfuls of butter instead use vegetable oil.

The bread comes out exactly the same and veg oil is so much easier to measure by pouring from the bottle instead of scooping and having to stick fingers in to get it out (and as my friend pointed out to me the vegetable oil is less likely to get used up by hungry tooast eaters without the chief breadmaker knowing).

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