Keeping a small child warm (and in her own bed) during winter nights

Our little daughter is sneaking into our beds most nights and having to be carried/guided back to her own (much chillier) bed when I realise Bealers and I have no room due to large 31/2 year old and her beloved Bunny taking up the majority of room. Despite numerous escortings back to her bed I usually wake in the morning with her next to me fast asleep.

When quizzed as to why she is doing this by a mother who feels more sleep deprived than she did when doing twin baby night feeds her answer is ‘Because your bed is snuggly and mine isn’t’.
Q:How do I make a child’s bed more snuggly without spending any money?
A:Go up into loft and retrieve the single duvet in storage,use as an extra layer between cheap Ikea matress and sheet.

It seems to have worked a little but not cured the sleep problem. I think part of the problem is that I’ve always had little Edie pulled into my bed for an easy life &have known since she was really tiny that the warmth of my body sends her to sleep instantly which means a good nights sleep for us both. Until her legs became long and gangly I really liked cuddling up to her too.

Yesterday I found a really lovely vintage feather quilt with silky pink cover. I’ve yet to pick it up from the charity shop tomorrow but am hoping this extra layer of heaviness and warmth over her bed will stop her from waking and wandering across the corridor to us.

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Second Hand Home Furnishings

I’ve managed to make our new home (we are renting a large Victorian country house) more cosy and beautifully furnished by visiting the local charity shops once a week (there are three in the local town) and trawling the weekly car boot sale every time it is on.

Some people have an aversion to all things second hand but luckily I have the opposite view –I feel ever so slightly revulsed by new things now,especially those made of plastic and for me buying beautifully made things for under £3 (usually for under 50p) is a great way of saving the planet from being submerged in landfill refuse and gives me an eclectic collection of things for my home within my extremely tight budget.

We keep a list of ‘Things we want’posted on the fridge and instead of shopping for new items we look out for 2nd hand ones. Current list had ‘buttons,extra knife block,bay tree cutting,lampshades,pretty curtains,houseplant pot,old fashioned feather quilt’which amazingly have all been aqcuired this week for total spend of £20
I was most excited this week to find two beautiful wicker shopping baskets at the local car boot sale for £2 each. It was an extra big bargain for me as only the day before while driving through nearby Cheltenham we’d stopped the car to look at an identical wicker basket sitting outside a secondhand store –the price tag stated it was £22. I climbed back in the car without it thinking of days gone by when I would have bought it without a thought.

The following day at the car boot sale I was grinning from ear to ear when I found my latest two wicker purchases…

[See also - The Basket Case System]

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How to vacuum

I had employed a cleaner for the last decade to come to my house twice a week for a total of 5 hours a week in order to vacuum,iron,scrub toilets,wash baths,floors,windows. I had never lifted a finger in my own home and had no idea how to.

After we moved away from London to downshift I read as many books as the local library stocked on home management and soon found out that little and often is the best approach with a general focus on one room or area per week (this works especially well if you can divide your house into approximately four zones so you are then back to the first zone each month).

Setting the timer for 15 minutes and doing some rather than nothing works really well for me as I could easily spend 15 minutes sitting on the sofa thinking ‘Grrrr I’ve got so much vacuuming to do it’s going to take me ages especially as I have to get the vacuum out,plug it in,blah blah blah’. The minute my brain thinks about vacuuming I now set the timer for 15 mins and get going. More often than not I have done LOADS by the time the beeper goes,feel great about my achievement and am back sitting with the kids before they have even noticed I’ve moved.

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Carry a cashbook

Since we downshifted to rural Worcestershire and I left work to be a fulltime mum I have started to manage the family’s weekly and monthly budget (before this move I just spent). If I saw something I liked I generally bought it. No wonder I ended up with a house full of stuff and no idea what things cost,how much essentials should cost or how much we could live on.

Until we moved at the beginning of July 2006 to live in the country and spendmuch more time with our kids I did not know the value of food,clothes,household goods,gifts etc.

The first step I took towards understanding where our money went was to carry a small chasbook with me and I now jot down every penny that is spent,what it is spent on and where. This then gives me valuable data as to what is essential spending and what could have been saved. It helped me to set weekly budgets for food,petrol,pharmacy items,kids clothing etc.

The cashbook is used at the end of the week and the data is collated into our familys financial spreadsheet as actual spendings against the predicted.

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Seasonal kids clothes admin

Suddenly it is Autumn and we are no longer able to dress the children in their summer clothes and thin pyjamas but where are their Autumn/Winter ones and how many still fit? Also how many clothes do I actually need for each child? I seem to have oodles thanks to the generosity of grandparents trawling charity shops for their little ones but too many stresses me out.

Presumably the answer lies in how often a family does a load of laundry (at least once a day for us) and how messy the kids are (puddles,mud pies,painting,mealtimes).

The trousers my kids wore yesterday are already washed,dried and folded. Tomorrow they will be put away so could actually get away with 2 pairs of trousers each,one extra pair for emergencies/spares.

Perhaps will pack away all but 4 or 5 tops and bottoms (skirts/dresses/trousers) for each of my children and see how I feel after a couple of weeks –less stressed due to having more room in drawers,less choise with what to wear or more hassled by the pressure to do a load of laundry?

We’ll see.

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